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~ Emotional Management ~

POSITIVE MIND MANAGEMENT CLINICAL HYPNOTHERAPY SERVICES/SESSIONS teach clients new mental and emotional skills which are new tools to help them overcome debilitating maladaptive behaviors such as:
     -Pornography and Self-abuse
     -Sleeping difficulties 
     -Weight loss issues
     -Smoking cessation 
     -Gambling and electronic game playing
     -Other unwanted and damaging time wasting behaviors
 
This video is of the Lighted Candle Society and an LDS Church Leaders Endorsement of Positive Mind Management Hypnotherapy. Listen to John Hollingshead's comments.

 

John Harmer the Chairman of the Lighted Candle Society Endorses Positive Mind Management Hypnotherapy as the preferred therapy for assisting people with pornographic influences and deviant inappropriate behaviors. The Lighted Candle Society has been in the fight against pornography for more than 50 years.

 

Listen to a discussion with a client who is now out of pornography, and his comments on how Positive Mind Management is working for him.

 

- Fears and phobias including:

     -Separation anxiety & homesickness

     - Fear of rejection

     - Fear of the unknown

     - Fear of the future

     - Fear of failure

     - Fear of 'Not Being Good Enough'

     - Fear of Not Being Smart Enough'

     - And so forth....


Please watch the stories of two LDS missionaries on the below video below.  Cade who learned these Positive Mind Management skills and tools before he left for the mission field, and Addison who learned them when he came home early due to emotional problems. We receive regular referrals to assist people who are preparing to go on missions to overcome emotional issues, pornographic influences, and out-of-control inappropriate behaviors.
      

     

 

Comments below of an LDS Missionary Elder currently serving in the mission field, who has had constant self-abuse issues for many years and was still experiencing the problem.  We did some sessions over SKYPE.   He is fully on track and has his temple recommend again:
Hello Brother Parker,

The last couple weeks have been absolutely amazing, I have been doing very well and remain true to my covenants, in fact I get my recommend back tomorrow.
I have been transferred to a new area, I am now up in ____________, and it’s really beautiful here by the coast. There are a lot of people here and we have already been able to build up our teaching pool. The work is going very well, we have a baptism scheduled for the 28th, and the ward has been very supportive.

I am really appreciative of the help that I received from our sessions, your book, and CD. I have struggled with my issue for a long time and am now relived to have effective strategies to fight back against the temptations of the adversary. At first I wasn't so sure how hypnotherapy would help me, but I quickly learned that this was going to help me a lot with what I was going through, and will also help me with later issues in my life.

It took a few weeks to understand and practice the Mind Management techniques, but once I got the hang of things and understood how to handle the situation, I was able to put aside and control my old habits. Honestly though, I feel so much better now, because I have so much more control over who I am, and what I desire to be. I am much more confident and very pleased with my way of life. It has been an amazing blessing!  I know I will continue to read over what I have been taught so it stays fresh in my mind.

I'll keep in touch,

Elder____________,
 
-Desensitize emotions from abuse and past traumatic experiences:
     -Grieving and other unresolved issues such as death of a loved one, divorce, abandonment
     -Eliminate Hopelessness, Desperation, Despair, Feeling Stuck and Inhibited
     -Stress Reduction
     -Learn relaxation skills that give rejuvenation to the spirit and the body

 

-Overcome psychosomatic induced illness caused by emotional stress            
 

-Non-medical solution for ADD and ADHD – Increase focus and concentration

 

Wendy has been doing Mind Management for over 20 years now.  Listen to how she uses it daily!

 

-Self-limiting beliefs:
     -Imagination problems
     -Self-Confidence and Self-Esteem Issues – “I am not good enough”
     -Shut down and eliminate useless mind chatter
 
Learn here how mother of four has eliminated her fears and improved relationships with her children.

 

 

-Pain Control – Both Acute and Chronic – Painless Child Birthing – Migraine Headaches
 
Listen to Emma story of having painless child birthing through control of her mind with hypnosis.

 

These services are provided by Certified Clinical Hypnotherapists trained at Certified Hypnotherapy Training School by W. Dennis Parker. CHTS qualifies students in hypnosis and self-hypnosis as a Hypnotist, in hypnotherapy with trainings in Suggestion Hypnotherapy, Clinical Hypnotherapy and our unique and proprietary, “Spiritual Mind Management Hypnotherapy” protocols, (SMM is now being re-branded as Positive Mind Management.)  CHTS is a Postsecondary Proprietary School of Hypnotherapy in the State of Utah, registered and bonded with the Department of Commerce.   

Students are Certified to be Certified Hypnotherapists and Certified Clinical Hypnotherapists through the American Council of Hypnotist Examiners.   (A.C.H.E.).    A.C.H.E Hypnotherapist Certificates are recognized and accepted throughout the United States, and in over 20 countries.  Hypnotherapy is a non-licensed, certifying profession as we are considered to be non-medical.  We do not diagnose, treat, or prescribe, but work with the conscious and subconscious minds to correct and overcome maladaptive negative predominant thought beliefs (thinking errors) which generate negative emotions and subsequent inappropriate behaviors. We teach clients how to change and correct their own minds, thought-belief patterns, at the speed of thought. 

Our Hypnotherapists fulfill all the legal requirements in the State of Utah, through the Department of Commerce and the Department of Occupational Professional Licensing. They have Professional Malpractice Insurance which only those certified through organizations like ACHE qualify with Insurance Underwriters to be able to obtain professional insurance. 

Today you are one step closer to a new you!

Here at Positive Mind Management you will uncover your true potential by learning how to free yourself from old unwanted emotions which are fixated to past experiences, memories, while at the same time learning how to manage your mind for emotional and behavioral control.  You will finally be  free and feel your personal power to lead a life that is worth celebrating! 

While we can't physically go back in time to change difficult situations,  we can use the power of the subconscious mind to go back and learn how to better understand and resolve challenges in your life whether they are in the past or the present.  Through innovative hypnotherapy techniques developed over  past 28 years, Positive Mind Management will help you unearth long-standing behavior patterns or negative  perceptions that are holding you back from experiencing a more peaceful, fulfilling, and meaningful life.

Dear Clergy,

I am inviting you to attend a FREE clergy orientation for Positive Mind Management protocols (Re-Branding of Spiritual Mind Management), for overcoming pornography and other deviant behaviors. The past seminars have been well received with Bishops and Stake Presidents sending us people who need these new mental and emotional skills.  One Stake President thanked me for taking the time to teach some of these principles during one seminar, and then sent me some additional information with this comment:  "Thanks again for the presentation, it was fabulous. "

I am also receiving requests to attend Bishop Welfare meetings and explain how these processes work and why they are so effective.  I am happy to do these meetings as I want to help more people improve their lives and be happier as they are now in personal control, through knowing how to manage their minds and emotions.

Below is a list of the Free Clergy Orientations to be held monthly at my office in Farmington, Utah and also broadcast live on FUZE.com - an online webinar system. You can attend my fully interactive webinar from the comfort of your own home on the Internet. You will be able to get all your questions answered the same as if you were in my office. (See the schedule of times below). The Orientations are scheduled  early on Friday evenings as many of the Clergy and their wives (who are interested in the subject and want to attend) are using the Orientation as a date night activity, and then go on to other events. 

 

The following is a letter I received from an Elder currently serving in the mission field who has had constant self-abuse issues for many years, and was still experiencing the problem. We did some sessions over Skype. He is fully on track and has his temple recommend again:

Hello Brother Parker,

The last couple weeks have been absolutely amazing, I have been doing very well and remain true to my covenants, in fact I get my recommend back tomorrow.

I have been transferred to a new area, I am now up in ____________, and it’s really beautiful here by the coast. There are a lot of people here and we have already been able to build up our teaching pool. The work is going very well, we have a baptism scheduled for the 28th, and the ward has been very supportive.

I am really appreciative of the help that I received from our sessions, your book, and CD. I have struggled with my issue for a long time and am now relived to have effective strategies to fight back against the temptations of the adversary. At first I wasn't so sure how hypnotherapy would help me, but I quickly learned that this was going to help me a lot with what I was going through, and will also help me with later issues in my life.

It took a few weeks to understand and practice the Mind Management techniques, but once I got the hang of things and understood how to handle the situation, I was able to put aside and control my old habits. Honestly though, I feel so much better now, because I have so much more control over who I am, and what I desire to be. I am much more confident and very pleased with my way of life. It has been an amazing blessing!  I know I will continue to read over what I have been taught so it stays fresh in my mind.

I'll keep in touch,

Elder ­­­­­­­­­­____________,

 

A middle aged father of four

To start at the lowest point

I was completely without hope… I had a plan in mind of how to end my life. It would have been easy, accidental looking, with even a feeling that, “He died doing something he loved!” There would have been plenty of insurance money for the kids and wife, I would finally be able to rest from the affliction of pornography and its accompanying ills that hounded me and held me captive for 25 years of my 32 year existence here. While it wasn’t the only reason, pornography was among the biggest contributors to the other two huge problems staring me in the face that I couldn’t resolve; I was in a marriage that was a disaster despite my best efforts, and a business that was crumbling after years of giving it the best I knew how. I felt like my inability to keep pornography in check was the reason my business and marriage were in such desperate straits; I felt like a complete failure!

Except for the day described above I always knew deep within me I was not meant to live like this; I had a higher purpose.  I just never knew when I would get through it and I never would have believed how. I am a father of 4 young children, who had tried desperately for decades to make my actions conform to my beliefs.

I hated what I did. I could never figure out why part of me wanted something so intensely that the rest of me hated and punished myself for constantly. I sought help in 12 step groups for years. I counseled with every ecclesiastical leader who had stewardship over me from the time I was about 13. I was more prayerful and studious than 99 percent of people my age. I attended seminary in my teenage years with enough consistency and extra study to letter in seminary.  I attended Institute of Religion courses for four years of college, waking up early or staying up late to excel in religion courses as well as in my career studies to graduate summa cum laude from college and with honors from the Institute of Religion. 

Outside of religious education I served as a leader in church programs, boy scouting, and FFA club during high school and after high school. I was always asked to lead others when I served a religious mission for 24 months on the other side of the world (as the 12 steppers would say, “I white knuckled it for that entire duration), and when I came home I was unable to maintain abstinence from this dreadful habit. It seemed that the minority of my desires was ruling over the majority. I abstained for nearly a year while I courted and started a marriage, but returned to the dreadful practice after being injured and laid up for several months early in our time together. I again counseled with ecclesiastical leaders and found strength to abstain for 18 months even when my wife refused to be intimate with me for months and even for over a year at a time.

At year 4 or 5 we sought professional help with one therapist who was supposed to be the best at treating pornography “addiction.”  I experienced little or no progress in the three or four times I met with him. At year 6 we were referred to a therapist who, we found on good authority, was the very best in our area.  He focused intensely on true principles of life and helped me truly believe that pornography is not an addiction but a reinforced habit. I learned later that what reinforced my habit was not at all what I believed it was. Through his counsel I was able to understand all the whys and why not’s and I had nearly a year without incident, but there were close calls and a lot of white knuckling. Part of me still wanted the porn so badly.  I spent thousands with this great counselor who helped us make great strides forward as a couple and individually.  After my lowest point I tried to go on anti-depressants to get me in a better place and relieve me from the temptations to view pornography. I tried three different medications, all of which made me worse to the point I felt like my brain was burning and all I could do was lay in bed twitching from medication side effects.  I still couldn’t be free from this constant temptation.

I blamed my seemingly unconquerable desire for pornography on an early exposure at age 7.  I used to believe that the exposure lead to heightened curiosity and lead me to view a lot of pornography over the subsequent years.

I always had the feeling there was something that needed to be unlocked, or unwound back to my childhood that contained the root of this desire. Until I experienced that first hypnotherapy session I didn’t think it was possible to even remember what this was, indeed many told me to just move on, that I would never be able to recall what it was that started this in me.  I believed them and tried to move forward without fixing the past. 

I was so scared to try hypnotherapy. I thought of the stage performers I had seen, I wondered if I would be looked down upon by my ecclesiastical leaders, I was scared of what I would say if I wasn’t in control of my mind, and perhaps the greatest fear was that it all sounded too good to be true another failed attempt waiting to happen. 

I had nothing to lose, my wife had decided to divorce me by this time. I was truly seeking to solve my own problems and fix me so I could move on and be rid of the prison cell of pornography that I kept choosing.

In my first hypnotherapy session (I really didn’t believe that I was even hypnotized at the beginning because it felt so natural) one of the first instances that came out of the session were a couple of memories I had of stealing toys when I was 7 years old.  I learned that I had decided to never trust myself because of those actions.  I believed the lie that I simply could not be trusted.  I found through hypnotherapy that this lie was what was reinforcing my habit of pornography indulgence.  As Dennis guided me through the process of learning the lessons I was supposed to learn from those experiences, and making proper restitution for my actions, my desire to view pornography immediately diminished.  I became more and more single minded.

In visit after visit more and more layers were removed to clear up lies and misunderstandings I had kept deep inside my mind from my earliest years and even very recent times. Perhaps the most important insight came when during a session Dennis pointed out that the enemy of our happiness speaks to us in the first person to make us believe it is us who wants to do what is contrary to what we know is right and good. That principle has been as a shield to my mind against negative thinking.

The Spiritual Mind Management principles I have learned through this process have allowed me to address a myriad of experiences on my own. I have used the triangular conversation gestalt technique, which really helps me to clear up lies, negative thinking, and interactions with others that have troubled me. I have also used the empty chair gestalt to banish negative personality parts I had allowed enter and influence my personality. I am learning to control my intelligence for clearer thinking and decision-making, and even to enhance my creativity in problem solving at work.

I highly recommend you give this process a chance. It will change your life. You have nothing to fear inside your own mind; you have everything to gain from becoming a unified whole person.  I worried at times that this would impact my faith negatively, I have found that I have never been more faithful, optimistic, and hopeful. When I think back on that dark day when I lost all hope and nearly sought to end my life, I see those dark hours served to get me to a place that I could overcome my fears of trying something very different and for me that was hypnotherapy.

 

Attached is a flyer with additional information and testimonials. If you would like to attend an Orientation please reply to this email, or call me, with the date you will be attending.

 

Please feel free to call me anytime and discuss concerns and questions. I can be reached at (801) 628-0693 between the hours of 8:00 am - 9:00 pm, Monday through Saturday.   My office is located at: 1980 North 2000 West - Suite 100 - Farr West, Utah - 84404  I have a team of therapists as well as myself.  We do sessions in person at the offices in Farr West, or on SKYPE or with other such means.  We are able to do these therapy sessions and Positive Mind Management trainings where ever there is reasonable internet service.

I look forward to speaking with you soon.

Respectfully,

Dennis Parker - Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist